Category Archives: Personality Development

Being Your Own Best Friend

The dark side of ourselves, this withering inner voice, can be challenged and replaced with something more merciful, more nurturing. If we pay attention to the way we talk to ourselves in private, we can learn to correct the harshness and become our own best friend. This isn’t New Age twaddle, it’s a way of changing the quality of your life. It doesn’t mean that you cease being self-critical – we need to be self-critical in order to improve – but it does mean that we learn sometimes to give ourselves a pat on the back, and that we hold back on the insults. Continue reading

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Flexibility

“To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often” – Winston Churchill Flexibility is defined as being adaptable to change. In the course of  your lifetime, you will be tempted to try to hold on to what … Continue reading

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Surrender

If you surrender to the fact that the universe will always present you with lessons, over and over again, you can stop trying to second- guess the divine plan. You will be amazed how much easier life gets when you stop resisting and controlling it, and ride the waves toward the fulfillment of your destiny. Continue reading

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Reclaim Your Self-Esteem: Transform Your Self-Talk from Negative to Positive

As humans, we are all magnificent by nature. We possess the ability to overcome obstacles, achieve meaningful accomplishments, honor our most important values, attain happiness and contribute our special, unique gifts to others. In short, we can take responsibility for … Continue reading

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Healing

It is entirely possible that other people’s positive perceptions of us can heal any damage in our self-esteem. But healing through mirroring can occur another way, as well. We can learn to heal past wounds the moment they are triggered in the present moment. This is done by dealing with the feelings that surface in certain difficult situations once and for all. The people who act as mirrors in the present can give you the gift of healing wounds from the past. Continue reading

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Endure Adversity

Everyone experiences adversity and difficult times. No one escapes. We don’t live in the fairy-tale world of Prince Charming and Cinderella. We live in the real world of conflict, war, financial reverses, relational breakdowns, illness, and suffering. Continue reading

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Inconvenience Counts

The acceptance of inconvenience and discomfort explains why people with  every apparent qualification for success become disappointing failures, while others achieve outstanding success in spite of many obvious and discouraging  handicaps. In other words, we’ ve got to realize right from the start that success requires an unconventional approach, and a much different philosophical  view. Continue reading

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